A major heartbreak or betrayal may be a replay of one which has an earlier root, often in childhood, when you felt betrayed or rejected by your beloved, your parents, life or God.
However, being rejected is actually a form of projection; it is a choice (albeit, often a split-second one) we have made to reject someone else.
But then we see the other as rejecting us, because they are not doing what we want, in the way we want them to, which We equate with their love for us.
Heartbreak comes out of something We refuse to accept.
What we refuse to accept is that another will not fill our needs.
Heartbreak, then, is a form of power struggle or competition that comes out of trying to get our needs met.
We can also use it as a form of emotional blackmail or manipulation to get others to respond to us in the way that we want them to.
When they don’t, we break our hearts with what We totally refuse to accept.
We reject them for not taking care of us or doing it our Way to meet our needs.
You can only be hurt if you Want something from someone and are denied it.
You can only have your heart broken if, in trying to get your needs met, you are giving to take, or to obtain under the of And it is this behavior which results in your being pushed away.
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If you receive this card today, you are being asked to look at where your needs are interfering with your relationships.
These needs are not your love.
If your partner seems to be moving away from you in any Way which seems hurtful to you, consider what you might be trying to take from him or her.
Consider whether or not there is someone or something else, or some other situation, you are refusing to accept because you have valued your control more than acceptance.
The more we reject something, the more it hurts.
But what we understand, accept, forgive and let go of today can free You have an opportunity today not only to heal the hurt, but also the underlying pattern of heartbreak - if you so choose.
我們的理解、接受、原諒和放手，給你一個釋放的機會，今天你可以醫治傷害，同時也治癒心碎的基本模式 - 如果你願意如此選擇。
Learning this lesson will provide a Whole new level of maturity and confidence, and will ensure more success in your relationships.